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Stephen Hanmer D'Elía,JD,LCSW's avatar

@Center for Humane Technology , your taxonomy of what's at stake—relationships, cognition, inner worlds, identity, work—is clarifying and needed. Thank you.

The sycophancy problem you name is deeper than design. AI isn't just frictionless, it's the technical architecture of fawning: constant validation, anticipation of need, suppression of anything that might unsettle.

The same nervous system response capitalism has always selected for, now automated. Which means protecting "what makes us human" isn't only about norms and rights. It's about whether we still have the somatic capacity to prefer friction over flattery. To stay with difficulty rather than outsource it. That capacity has to be rebuilt in the body, not just encoded in policy.

I explored this in a recent essay, The Attention Wound: What the Attention Economy Extracts and What the Body Cannot Surrender

https://open.substack.com/pub/yauguru/p/the-attention-wound?utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web

The Aperture Field Notes's avatar

This piece landed for me, especially alongside Richard’s comment.

It stirred a closely related but slightly different question: whether our rush to frame AI as “ethical” or “unethical” sometimes reveals how much we want morality to live somewhere else, like in systems, corporations, or technologies, rather than in our own ongoing choices and tradeoffs.

I don’t experience this as a problem of bad actors so much as misaligned incentives, aggregated at scale. And when we trace those incentives honestly, we eventually run into ourselves: what we demand, what we tolerate, what we reward, and what we’re unwilling to pay for materially, socially, or personally.

For me, the work of “preserving what makes us human” isn’t about perfect guardrails or clean answers. It’s about staying present to cost, resisting moral outsourcing, and choosing again and again how responsibility is carried.

Grateful for the care and seriousness this work is being approached with. My own thoughts expanded on my SS today:

https://notes.theaperturefield.com/p/when-good-and-bad-stop-working

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